Pendirian 2

My husband is a duda when i met him. But of couse, he lied to me at first. He said he's single. When he's sure he wants me as his wife, then he tells me everything. As much as i know, he just divorce his wife when he met me.

I once told him, if my presence in his life will only just to make him reliaze that he still love his marriage n his family, just go. Go back to your family. Because they still can rujuk at that moment. Later i found out, that his wife doesnt want to rujuk with him because she knows that he have me, and he doesnt even care to hide it (shit! He's cruel).

So the point is, the exwife cannot accept the divorce. She cannot move on. She still cling to her ex, which is at that point, my husband. She's sad... I dont want to say pathetic, because it sound so harsh. She is not independent kind of woman. She insist to take care of their two kids. Her emotional state isnt stable. Shes moody.

There's once, she forbid me to come n join her daughter sports day, maybe she's not ready to see me n her ex together. But my husband stand, how can he leave me, she's my wife. Then she said, ok, just bring me, but dont destroy her moods (whaaaaat?)

what actually i want to say is, this exwife, when she is my husband's wife, she also get angry when she knows her husband dating other woman (he likes janda so much). But, now she is a janda, she dates someone's husband. When my husband tell me this, i was like... What the hack.... And boleh pulak dia cakap dia xtau nk pilih yang mana, yang suami org tu atau pn yg duda tu utk jd steady boyfriend dia. (Whaaaaaaaat?)

she always asked my husband's opinion about her love life. So i guess dia mmg xada kawan, or maybe, dia just nk tau whether my husband get jealous of her or not.

So, this is weird, sbb korang becerai pn sbb suami kau kaki perempuan, tiba2 kau nk jd perempuan-perempuan yg bercinta dgn suami org, n u are assuming what? Your love is pure? Shit...